The story of title of my blog actually starts with Anita. I remember, even as young as 4 or 5, preparing for recitals during dance class on Thursday nights. Mrs. Kennedy would quiz us, "What do you do if you are on stage and the lights go out?" to which the class would shout in unison, "KEEP ON DANCING!" "And what do you do if your shoe comes untied?" "KEEP ON DANCING!" "What if you see your big sister waving at you from the audience?" "KEEP ON DANCING!" and so on.
I don't know if that phrase stuck with all her young students the way it did me, but it became kind of a mantra or slogan for me. When I was still on the fence about starting this blog, I finally told Jeff that I would do it if he would set it up and name it for me. It didn't take him long to come up with the title. And it fits. Not only is dancing something that I love and have been passionate about for most of my life, the idea that we have to just keep going, no matter what, is where we are right now. It might hurt. We might forget what we're doing from time to time. A shoe might fly off. The tempo might be too fast. We just keep going. And hopefully, eventually, we'll fall into rhythm. It'll feel like second nature. Our hearts will soar with enjoyment and gratitude. We'll have created a work of art. Others will applaud. And hopefully not out of obligation or politeness, but because something that we did resonated with them.
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As is becoming usual, this was hard to hear, though not surprising. But still, as I felt particularly down during the next couple of days, I asked myself why this hit me so hard. I found the answer: Every time we get some "bad" news about Keira and her prognosis, I try to re-imagine her best-case-scenario in terms of her future and her maximum capacity for learning and growing. I feel like every time I get difficult news, I have to bring my expectations down another notch. As silly as it may sound, I told my folks, "I can't picture a fully functioning adult with googley eyes."
Thank goodness that just when I feel discouraged, Keira does something that makes me think I may just be underestimating her. Her little coos and laughs are enough to melt your heart! The way one side of her mouth pulls up just a little higher, looking kind of mischievous like she's saying, "Gotcha!" or "I was just messin' with ya, Mom!"
I'm so excited about this week's one appointment. On Wednesday, Jeff, my mom, and I will all meet with the OT in our home for the first time. She is going to assess Keira but most importantly, will give us a zillion (her words) ideas for stretches, exercises, etc. to help with her movement and development. I expect this to be empowering for me, as I often wish I could just DO something for her.
Bekah, I keep reading, keep praying, and keep being impressed by your tenacious love for Keira. I'll be praying for her eyes and tracking. And I hope, hope, hope we get to see video of her dancing in a couple years.
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I have a feeling Miss Keira will be full of many more wonderful surprises! As she has already shown us her strength and determination to be here, I have a sense there is much more of that in store! Go Keira,GO!!
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