Inclusion, Part 1

Nearly a year ago, our new pastor proposed that Jeff take on the role of "special needs minister" of our church. In his words, this ministry is what would "make [the church] Christian."Jeff was flattered, and is decidedly qualified for the role, but thought long and hard about taking this on. Finally, a few months ago, he was welcomed onto the staff of our church as the minister of "Inclusion." 

The word inclusion was chosen carefully. The term "special needs" has become the politically correct term that most associate with individuals who have mental illness or cognitive impairment. Its ancestors include the words disabled, handicapped, retarded, and many others that are now considered insensitive and outdated. Jeff, understandably, hated to label this ministry at all, longing to have more than just a club, of sorts, but a change in the culture of the church as a whole. He wanted to resist the appearance of showcasing the anomalies in our congregation and he wanted the ministry to reach far beyond what one typically thinks of as "special needs" to include anyone who could benefit from our congregation and building being more accommodating. Thus, the term "inclusion" seemed to be the best fit. 

As Jeff's wife, and as a psychologist, and as Keira's mom, I see myself as a partner, to some degree, in this endeavor. The ministry is moving ahead slowly (He does have the other full time job) but surely. Jeff and I both have made gains in building relationships and being available to individuals and families who have outstanding concerns.  

Jeff's current plans include buying and installing speakers in our "hospitality room" so that individuals who get overwhelmed in the crowded service can participate in a quieter environment. He's brainstorming with others about adding a valet or shuttle service due to our limited accessable parking. And he and I both are working with pastors and teachers to help create space for individuals with special needs, whatever they might be, to participate more fully in church activities. 

I couldn't be more proud of Jeff for taking on this role. It seems that many experiences he's had in recent years have uniquely prepared him for this and it's pretty exciting.